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Police partnership for marginalized youth
The
Youth Support Scheme and the Hong Kong Police Castle
Peak Division brought the "Teen Action" project
to a successful conclusion in early June this year. Officers
at Castle
Peak have been volunteering their spare time to coach a
dozen young offenders cautioned under the Police Superintendent's
Discretionary Scheme. We are very proud of this partnership,
which dates back to 1999. Since then the scheme has been
responsible for providing early support and assessments
for these teenagers and their families in the Castle Peak
Division. The police used a variety of training techniques
to help them build up strength, endurance and determination
and in the process the youngsters developed a remarkably
close bond with the officers. Such has been the success
of the scheme that as of 2001 it was extended to serve
a second Divisional Police Stations at Tuen Mun. Read this
week's Lead Story for more on the project.
For more info on Teen Action and the Youth Support Scheme contact Miss
Carrie Wong who is in charge of the YSS office, tel. 2396 4711, email: uicyss@hkfyg.org.hk
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Bonaqua
Youth Challenge
Sponsored
by Swire Coca-Cola HK, the 2004 Bonaqua
Youth Challenge, much anticipated by the participants and
always a great
favourite with supporters, will be held in Sai Kung Country
Park, on 5 December. We are also grateful to Milk
Magazine and HK Sportsworld.com for
their coverage of the competition and to the Hong
Kong Amateur Radio Association for setting
up wireless telecoms networks. All three will give the
event wider publicity. Moreover, we are delighted to have
prize sponsors to support the programme, namely Helly
Hansen,
Hong Kong Mountaineering Training Center, Hong Kong Discovery
Magazine, Protrek and Golite.
This year's competition has attracted 61 teams with a total
of 244 youngsters who
will join in the exciting events. The competition offers
a valuable chance to young people to bring their full potential
into play. Teams will compete in a number of sports activities,
namely trail running, in-line skating, swimming, navigation
and canoeing. Moreover, participating youth will improve
their inter-personal skills since cooperation is essential
to the success.
Click here:
www.u21.org.hk/main/promotion/bonaque
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Entrepreneurial opportunities open to youth
The
first LiveWIRE Award Presentation Ceremony co-organized
with Shell (HK) Ltd, ran very smoothly
with the help of our media partner, Next Magazine and
the kind supoort of Tiptop
Consultants
Ltd, JCI (Junior Chamber International) and the Trade
and Industry Department, HKSAR Government. Held
on 3 November 2004, the Ceremony gave public recognition
to ten participants
who had demonstrated outstanding entrepreneurial and innovative
ability throughout the programme. This is an excellent
example of a programme that supports youth development,
promotes the spirit of enterprise and helps young people
become interested in business by introducing the option
of self employment as a career. The Federation is proud
to say that we shall be running the 2004 LiveWIRE project
with the continued, fully-fledged support of Shell (Hong
Kong Ltd.), gathering the forces of youth entrepreneurial
spirit to explore their potential to the full. Click to
see the
Award Ceremony
www.u21.org.hk/main/occupation/life.html
and
www.shell-livewire.com.hk for
the LiveWIRE Programme.
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Poverty breeds
abuse
Living in Hong
Kong is not easy, especially if you are poor. The average household
of 4 live on under HK$16,000 a month but 20% of the population
live on less than half that amount. Parents are desperate to
secure their offspring's future - and their own. In such circumstances
we have to try to help them cope better with stress-filled lives.
That is the main work of the Federation's Family Life Education
Unit which runs a series of projects on parenting skills. The
proposed reform of the exam-heavy education structure will also
help, making school results less of a concern for parents and
youth alike. Then we must empower youngsters with the skills,
confidence and contacts to be able to cope with the daily pressures
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A
recent case of child maltreatment points up what happens when
families fall into the trap of being unable to cope with stress.
An 8 year-old, black, blue and bleeding from a beating, was found
wandering in Po Lam Road. He told police that his mother had
caned him and thrown him out because of poor school results.
The parents could not be contacted and the Social Welfare Department
is treating this is a child abuse. Last year they handled 481
cases of child abuse. The latest available figures for 2004 do
not look good. After six months there were already 293 - and
that is just reported cases. Parents unable to handle stress
often take their frustrations out on their children. If these
problems are not dealt with the abuse of vulnerable children
will keep on rising.
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Kids on the
Streets
Kin started life
as a good boy and is now a fire fighter. But for a while he went
down a very rocky road. He preferred fighting
on the streets. Hanging out with bad company was his idea of a cool
night out. When trouble showed up the gang's answer was a street
brawl. Till the police arrived.
He was cautioned
as a young offender under the Police Superintendent's Discretionary
Scheme (PSDS) in 1998 Luckily for him, the offence
was not considered serious enough for a court hearing. Referred
to the Federation's Youth Support Scheme (YSS) for counselling
and reintegration, he came into the hands of Carrie's one of the
scheme's professional social workers.
Kin, at that
time still a rebellious youth, half rejected her help and resented
the intrusion of home visits. But the other half
of him was still very attached to his family, ashamed of his misdeeds,
and wanted to make a turn-around. At the back of his mind there
was also a long-term ambition to be a policeman or a fire-fighter.
Carrie gradually
got to know him and persuaded him to help out in the community
by
doing voluntary work. She knew it would give
him a different perspective on life, get him involved in helping
others and experience the rewards that brings. Then, while still
at school, he joined the Federation's Fit for Life programme -
a rehabilitation scheme for young offenders and a fore-runner of
today's Teen Action.
That was when
he met police officer, Mr. Daniel Lawley, a volunteer Federation
mentor
who got him to shape up, not just physically
but mentally. Daniel Lawley, now Division Commander in Yuen Long,
had a terrific influence on Kin. He was ruthless but skillful and
recognized Kin's aptitude in games, particularly as a boxer. Capitalising
on this knowledge, Lawley motivated him by channelling all that
physical aggression first into sport and then into a challenge
only he could meet.
Kin left school at 16, took part in the Yi Jin vocational training
project and did some temporary work before applying for the Fire
Services. Recruitment was slow, but sure for Kin. In 2001 he was
accepted. All this time Carrie kept in touch with him and when
the Youth Support Scheme needed volunteers this year for Teen Action
she asked him to take part as a trainer and mentor for young offenders
like he used to be himself. Kin agreed to the challenge.
A fit 16 year
old lad called Sing was in Kin's group, formed in April this
year. Having
been caught up in a bungled attempt at
petty theft he was cautioned under the PSDS and, just like Kin,
the police referred him to the YSS. With Daniel Lawley as his role
model, Kin knew he had to motivate Sing by example as well as by
discipline. Using the same techniques, he focused Sing's energy
on the rewards of fitness training. But he knew from his own past
that rebels do not like rules. He tried to work out how to communicate
with the youths. That was something nobody had taught him.
Sing found
Kin's strict methods difficult. He nearly gave up half way through
the programme,
but his mother, who had been involved
in the scheme from the outset, helped him through. Federation youth
workers had explained to her how important she would be as support
for her son during the process of adapting to the rigours of training,
motivating him to do his best and then become re-integrated. She
understood what Teen Action could do for her son and in fact she
told us that the experience brought them much closer together than
they had ever been.
Asked what
he had learned from the programme Sing said "self discipline
and how to trust
others". Asked how it could be improved, he said
"make it longer!" Both mother and son told us they had
found the entire experience meaningful and mutually beneficial
and
the mother
asked if we could run this kind of training course for all teenagers,
not just those who had been picked up by the police. She had seen
the good it did her son and decided it could do the same for
many,
many more.
Kin said he
had be happy to be involved in Teen Action again and now Sing
wants
to do
his turn as a trainer too. This is the best
outcome we could hope for, where the trained become trainers and
the whole process is self-perpetuating. All we need is enough volunteers
like these and adequate facilities.
The Federation
acknowledges with sincere thanks the work of such volunteers
as Daniel Lawley and Mr. Ian Seabourne, District Commander
at Wong Tai Sin, to whom it owes the early success of these programmes
and with whom our social work teams continue to collaborate fruitfully.
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Lethal
cocktail or time together: a parent's choice What
is the best way to stop a teenager trying out drugs, alcohol
or a
lethal mix of them both? A parent who tells them the risks -often.
A quick telling off will not do - you have got to be a role model
too. If you drink, they will copy you. If you smoke, why shouldn't
they?
Being a parent is hard work and 40% of all parents think they are
incompetent. "Too busy", we mutter. "No time",
we protest.
"Anyway they have got homework to do", we argue, when
the idea of quality
family time comes up. Have we forgotten how our own parents were?
They had simple remedies. Like eating, reading and walking with
us. Unwinding and bonding. Best of all they sometimes played with
us. 30% of British kids say their parents never or rarely play
with them. In Hong Kong only 12% say they have ever played with
mum or dad. Parents need to know their kids - not just what
they like to eat but their favourite music and pop stars. Then
there is a chance of nipping a nasty habit in the bud. Parenting
skills do not come easily so they are the focus of the Federation's
Family Life Education Units. There is also Parentline,
tel 27771567, for counselling when advice is needed urgently.
A related event is the
upcoming
series
of seminars
on parenting, jointly organized with the Vocational Training Council.
It is called"Stop and listen to your child",
and will be held from 21st November to 5th December. Visit www.vtc.edu.hk
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Cultivating
creativity
Nobody
argues - reading is good, it stimulates independent learning
and creative thinking. On the other hand, there is little doubt
that too much TV too young is very bad - for cognitive skills,
language development and academic achievement. But what do
kids like doing best in their free time? Watching TV and sleeping.
So the big question is how to get kids to read instead of gawping
at the box. One answer is to combine the two. Choice of programme
is crucial but with the right content a TV programme will actually
stimulate related reading rather than stifle it, as long
as parents participate actively. And reading is not all paper
and print. Interactive books come on CD-ROM, some book publishers
put reading related activities on their websites and the
web itself offers vast reading resources as well as the fun
of surfing. But whether it is programme selection, reading
or surfing, a responsible adult has to join in, every day,
while good habits are cultivated and take root. Then a child's
imagination goes to work and that is where creativity begins.
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